The RYM Podcast

Episode 269 - Dr. Justin Holcomb

In this episode, John interviews Dr. Justin Holcomb about sexual abuse. To move more easily throughout the episode, please check out the time stamps below.

1:55 – Intro from Justin

6:55 – Defining sexual assault/sexual abuse

13:45 – Justin shares his story

16:45 – What are some signs of abuse?

21:35 – Clarifying some of the signs of abuse

25:10 – What are some of the effects of abuse?

28:15 – Why do the abused feel like it’s their fault?

36:05 – What would an abused person want others to know?

41:15 – How can parents and youth workers help in this area?

48:45 – What are some common mistakes people make when trying to help?

54:15 – How can we prevent sexual abuse from occurring?

1:07:30 – What are some cautions for youth ministry/ministers?

1:11:04 – John shares some ideas to implement in youth ministry.

1:12:20 – Justin explains what happens with the background checks.

1:14:50 – What advice do you have for those who have been abused?

Episode 268 - Rev. Cyril Chavis

In this episode Rev. Cyril Chavis shares his story. Check out the timestamps to move around more easily in this episode:

1:45 - Intro

7:45 - When did you come to know the Lord?

18:40 - How did your parents react to you becoming Presbyterian?

22:50 - When were you first exposed to reformed theology?

29:15 - What were some challenges of becoming Presbyterian?

37:22- What kind of a student were you in church?

44:50 - When did you think about serving in full-time ministry?

48:40 - When did you think about serving in college ministry?

58:20 - How long do you think you'll serve in college ministry?

1:04:30 - What's a helpful resource you'd like to pass along?

Episode 267 - Ellen Dykas

267 - Ellen joins John to discuss the topic of females and pornography (www.rym.org) 

1:51 – Intro from Ellen Dykas

4:52 – Is pornography really growing among females?

8:31 – Why is this a growing trend?

11:50 – Why has the church been so slow to address this issue?

15:50 – What have been some unhelpful ways churches have dealt with this?

20:10 – How has the culture fostered the idea of porn being a male only problem?

23:20 – Has the world of pornography changed to make it more appealing to females?

28:22 – Teens and sexting

31:48 – Are men really more visual than women?

35:14 – Body image

40:22 – Heart issues of pornography

47:14 – Three pieces of advice for women struggling

50:20 – Advice to men helping women

53:20 – Helpful resources

Episode 266 - Rev. Matthew Icard

7:35 – What was your youth group experience like?

11:44 – What were you like in your youth group?

13:20 – When did you begin considering full-time ministry?

20:20 – How has working behind the scenes changed your perspective on the church?

30:07 – Why do you enjoy youth ministry?

34:14 – What’s one story/trip/inside joke that your youth group loves to tell?

41:56 – What are some other possible career paths you’ve thought about pursuing?

46:08 – What counsel would you give to someone considering a possible change of call?

51:27 – How much longer do you plan to serve in youth ministry?

55:01 – What’s one book/podcast/article recommendation?

For more resources, visit www.rym.org/resources

 

Rerun of Episode 225 - Linda Oliver

225 - What should I think/how should I feel about God’s sovereignty in election? (www.rym.org)

Rerun of Episode 224 - Linda Oliver

224 - How do I navigate friendships with people who differ from me morally? (www.rym.org)

Season 3 Update

John gives a quick update on the new format, theme, & guests for season 3. (www.rym.org)

Rerun of Episode 223 - Linda Oliver

223 - What should I do about this romantic relationship I’m in (or a potential one)? (www.rym.org)

Rerun of Episode 222 - Linda Oliver

222 - What should I think about women’s roles in the church & home? (www.rym.org)

Rerun of Episode 221 - Linda Oliver

221 - FAQs: What am I supposed to say when I pray out loud in public? (www.rym.org)